Editing Steris Harms

{{character
|image= Steris by Maria Dimova.jpg
|parents=[[Jackstom Harms]]
|siblings=[[Marasi Colms]]
|spouse=[[Waxillium Ladrian]]
|children=[[Maxillium Ladrian| Maxillium]], [[Tindwyl Ladrian | Tindwyl]]
|relatives=[[Armal]]
|ancestors=[[Spook]]{{book ref|mb4|7}}
|religion=[[Survivorism]]
|residence=Elendel
|world=Scadrial
|universe=[[Cosmere]]
|first appeared=[[The Alloy of Law]]
}}
{{update|mb6|mb7}}
{{quote
|As I have said many times before, I am aware of my reputation. I must embrace my nature.
|Steris{{book ref|mb5|10}}
}}
'''Steris Harms''' is the daughter of Lord [[Jackstom Harms]] and the half-sister of [[Marasi Colms]], as well as the fiancee and eventual wife of High Lord [[Waxillium Ladrian]]. Steris often states that she does not fit in well with other people, and she makes up for this by relentlessly memorizing social norms and relevant facts about [[Scadrian]] society and by creating exhaustive lists of contingencies for any and every possible occasion. This led to being appointed as the Disaster Preparations Officer by the governor. She is autistic.{{wob ref|6841}}{{wob ref|11122}}

== Appearance and Personality ==
{{image|Steris by ML Malandrino.jpg|side=left|width=300px}}
{{quote
|I’ve learned to fake being normal, but lists of prepared comments and jokes can only take me so far. People can sense that I’m not being authentic - that I don’t like the things they like or think the way they do.
|Steris to Wax{{book ref|mb6|12}}
}}
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Steris has blond hair,{{book ref|mb4|2}} which is usually pulled up into a bun. She often wears a stern or cool expression. Steris carefully crafts her outfits so that she keeps up with the current fashions, neither ahead of or behind the curve.{{book ref|mb4|4}}
Because she is autistic, Steris often feels disconnected from those around her. She often describes herself as boring,{{book ref|mb6|12}} and mentions several times that others find it difficult to spend much time with her.{{book ref|mb6|2}} As a member of Wax’s close circle, Steris often feels as though she has nothing to contribute to their heroics. During the hunt for the [[Bands of Mourning]], Steris gives herself a 7/100 usefulness rating.{{book ref|mb6|23}}

Steris copes with her disconnection by being as prepared and thorough as humanly possible. She always carries at least one notebook, in which she keeps multiple lists. Steris has compiled lists of witty comments to use during conversation,{{book ref|mb5|9}} unsavory people to invite to her wedding,{{book ref|mb5|2}} and on one occasion a twenty-seven page list of things to bring on a spontaneous trip.{{book ref|mb6|5}} Steris is known to prepare exhaustive plans and backup plans, and backup backup plans, and to pack in accordance with those plans, bringing extra steel or guns for Wax to use and on one occasion gouging a hiding place for a brass medallion out of her notebook.{{book ref|mb6|28}} 

Steris is very intelligent and dedicated to what she views as her duties. She puts an enormous amount of effort into learning everything she can about the players and moving parts of [[Elendel]] society,{{book ref|mb5|9}} and takes her responsibilities as a head of House Ladrian very seriously, even to the point of reviewing the house finances in an effort to recover three missing clips.{{book ref|mb6|5}} Her dedication to and interest in what Wax views as meaningless and boring tasks inspires him to greater dedication to his own responsibilities as High Lord Ladrian.{{book ref|mb6|6}}

Steris is given to moments of deep reflection and poetic expression, as well as moments of surprising honesty.{{book ref|mb5|8}} She speaks formally most of the time, except with Wayne, whom she does not respect at all.

== History ==
===Early Life===
Steris was raised in Lord Harms household, with Lord and Lady Harms. Steris’s parents were not emotionally close. Lord Harms remarked that Steris is much like her mother.{{book ref|mb4|4}} Steris was aware of Lord Harms’s extra-marital affairs and views them as normal, to the point where she wrote a clause for affairs into her original marriage contract, though she is not fond of it.{{book ref|mb4|2}}

=== Engagement to Wax and Capture by the Vanishers ===
{{quote
|I did not make these rules. Nor do I approve of them; many are inconvenient. But it is the society in which we live. Therefore I make of myself something that can survive in this environment.
|Steris to Wax{{book ref|mb4|4}}
}}

Steris makes a visit to the Ladrian mansion to discuss arranging an engagement between herself and Wax.{{book ref|mb4|2}} This was the first time Steris and Wax had met in person, although they had been exchanging letters regarding a house union for several months. Steris presented Wax with a “thorough” document of at least 20 pages that outlined each stage of their courtship and engagement, as well as the terms of their eventual marriage, an arrangement that Wax agreed to. It was here that Steris also met [[Wayne]], in the guise of Wax’s fictional Uncle Maskil.

Steris and Wax attended the [[Yomen-Ostlin wedding dinner]] as a couple a few days after their first meeting.{{book ref|mb4|4}} As they entered the party, Steris educated Wax on how Elendel society revolved around gatherings like it, and how invitations were used almost as weapons. Steris also informed Wax that she would no longer respond negatively to his “ignorant frontiersman” act. Despite this statement, she did become frustrated with his coarse table talk and leave their group for a moment. As a result, she was in the bathroom when the [[Vanishers]] attacked the party. Steris and Marasi were the kidnapping targets of the attack,{{book ref|mb4|5}} and while Wax was able to rescue Marasi, Steris was ultimately taken.{{book ref|mb4|6}} Lord Harms was devastated at the loss of his only (legitimate) daughter, and offered to bankroll Wax’s efforts to recover her.{{book ref|mb4|7}} The next day, Wax coaxes Marasi into revealing that she and Steris are actually half-sisters, rather than cousins as they were first introduced.

Wax felt intensely guilty about failing to save Steris, and thus undertook an intense investigation into the Vanishers and their mysterious financial backers. As he finally confronted [[Miles Hundredlives]], the leader of the Vanishers, Wax discovered Steris hidden in a room of Miles’s lair.{{book ref|mb4|19}} He rescued her from the room and used his [[Feruchemical]] and [[Allomantic]] powers to collapse the building, an event which Steris appeared to find exhilarating. He then had Steris run from the scene to fetch the constables. After the fight was over and Miles was arrested Steris was interviewed about her experience by the constabulary, then offered Wax her thanks for his rescue.{{book ref|mb4|20}} She informed him that she “remained pure” after her captivity, and suggested that the pair advance the timeline for their relationship that had been laid out in her contract, an advance that would be facilitated by his dramatic rescue. Steris also informed Wax that she would no longer complain at his hobby of rushing around the city fighting crime, because they could each accept the other for who they were. For the first time, Steris shows a small amount of affection for Wax.

=== During Paalm's Attack ===
{{quote
|This is how it’s going to be, with him, isn’t it? Always being left behind in the middle of something? Always half feeling as if I’m part of his life?
|Steris to Wayne, about Wax{{book ref|mb5|12}}
}}

Steris goes on a cordial visit to Ladrian Mansion to do some wedding planning. Her main goal of the day is to decide who to invite to the wedding between her and Wax. Steris reveals that she has been reading the public records of Wax’s arrests in the Roughs in an effort to discover more about his life. They decide to invite [[Douglas Venture]] in an effort to control the chaos that Steris knows will inevitably appear at any major event in Wax’s life before Wax is ushered out the door by Wayne to chase down their latest prey, the [[Marksman]]. Before he leaves, Steris asks Wax to take care of Marasi.

Later that day, Wax accompanies Steris to see the governor speak at [[Lady ZoBell]]’s party.{{book ref|mb5|8}} On the way there, Wax tells Steris a story about his uncle from his childhood. When traffic clogs up, Wax uses [[Ranette]]’s new grappling hook to climb [[ZoBell Tower]] with Steris according to the plan in Steris’s notebook. During this climb Steris voices how wonderful she thinks it is to fly by allomancy, although Wax feels she is uncomfortable with the experience. During the party, Steris discards her usual plan for working the crowd in favor of Wax’s goal of finding [[Bleeder]].{{book ref|mb5|9}} Steris evidences interest in the methods Wax uses to protect himself during a social occasion, and proves much better than he is at navigating, and ending, conversations. Steris also revealed that she had prepared a list of witty quips that she thought Wax would enjoy, prompting Wax to say that he thought she was being truly genuine with him even though she was working off a list. Steris and Wax encountered [[MeLaan]] in disguise before finally being able to speak with Governor [[Replar Innate]]. Steris defends Wax to the governor before being left behind when Bleeder begins to speak to Wax. After Wax chases Bleeder out of ZoBell tower Steris is left to make small talk with Wayne, who tells her that he finds her repulsive and indicates that he would rather be anywhere else than talk with her. Eventually, Marasi sends Steris off to wait in safety until Bleeder is captured.{{book ref|mb5|12}}  

After Wax confronts Paalm and learns the truth about Lessie, he goes through a severe depressive episode.{{book ref|mb5|epilogue}} During this time, Steris handled all of his affairs, from looking after the events of House Ladrian to making conversation and excuses to his visitors. After he recovers, Wax states that Steris gave him an invaluable gift by allowing him to cry and to grieve without requiring anything of him.

=== The Hunt for the Bands of Mourning ===
At the morning of Wax and Steris’ wedding, Steris asks Wax if he needs a breather. Wax also asks Steris if she is having second thoughts, and she says no. When approaching the church, a Kandra by the name of VenDell tries to ask Wax for help, but Wax interupted him and said no. Later he told Steris that for obvious reasons he wanted nothing to do with them. During the wedding ceremony, some gangs flood the church.{{book ref|mb6|1}} Steris tells Wax that getting drenched must be rather novel, as he gets exploded a lot.{{book ref|mb6|2}} Steris then returns to her father's house to recover.{{book ref|mb6|3}}

{{image|Wax and Steris finances by Elisgardor.jpg|side=left|width=350px|Looking over the house finances with [[Wax]]}}

Later, when Steris learns that she, Marasi, Wayne, and Wax are going to stop Suit and recover a spike that was taken from a kandra named ReLuur, Steris accompanies Wax after freaking out about how she needed to do things like make lists.{{book ref|mb6|4}}

They boarded a train to New Seran. During that ride, she was reading a book on human reproduction, and lied that it was about the history of New Seran. When Wax found out she was lying, she became greatly embarrassed. After hearing Wax tak about why he is a lawman, Steris convinces Wax to help her look for three lost clips by comparing ledgers.{{book ref|mb6|5}} Later, Marasi walks in on Wax finding the last lost clip.{{book ref|mb6|6}}

Then, the train gets attacked by robbers, and Wax tells Steris to stay safe. Later, Steris reveals that she keeps vials of steel flakes in cod-liver oil in case Wax needed them. While Wax is fighting, Steris picks up the shotgun Ranette made for Wax to shoot when his weight is increased and fired it. She managed to hit the robber's arm, but she gets flung off of the train.{{book ref|mb6|7}} Wax saves her and brings her back to the train where Marasi and Wax defeat the remaining robbers.{{book ref|mb6|8}} Wax finds Steris doing needlework, and comforts her. They then take a cargo train to New Seran.{{book ref|mb6|9}}

When they get to their hotel, Steris gives the owner [[Aunt Gin]] a list of things that might happen to her hotel. The list includes things like shoot outs and hostage situations, as well as events that have a very small chance of happening, such as a cattle stampede through the lobby.{{book ref|mb6|10}} 

At Lady Kelesina's party, after helping Wax with talking with people she hoped would give Wax the information he needed,{{book ref|mb6|11}}{{book ref|mb6|12}} she deliberately made herself projectile vomit all over her table to give them a believable excuse to leave and to rest, giving Wax a chance to spy on Kelesina.{{book ref|mb6|13}}{{book ref|mb6|14}} After Wax and MeLaan kill the house steward, Steris comes out from behind a bush. Wax then shows Steris his appreciation by showing her the acendants field.{{book ref|mb6|15}} They then gather their things and leave a very worried Aunt Gin. Steris tells Aunt Gin that they had been framed for murder, which was on page seventeen of the list Steris had given her.

Wax, Wayne, Marasi, MeLaan, and Steris barely escaped New Seran, but only after Wax brought down a gondola line.{{book ref|mb6|16}} They were driving to dulsing because that is where ReLuur's spike was sent to. While Steris and Wax were sleeping, Marasi burned a pinch of cadmium, throwing everything from one time frame to the next, causing a large jolt and waking both Wax and Steris. Shortly afterward, they arrived at a large warehouse, and Wax told Steris that she should stay with the horses, expecting Steris to argue. Instead, she just accepted the fact and waited.{{book ref|mb6|17}} 

Steris expected Wax and the others to come back on foot, but instead, Wax brought her onto an airship. They brought all of their supplies, and once up, Steris started organizing their supplies.{{book ref|mb6|21}}

When they approached the temple, Steris pointed out that someone had to watch for Suit's men and keep a lookout. So Steris, Marasi, and Wayne stayed behind.{{book ref|mb6|23}} While on lookout, Steris showed Marasi a chart of how useful everyone was on the hunt, with the max score being one hundred. Wax and MeLaan both had a score of one hundred. Wayne was a seventy-five. Marasi was an eighty-three. Steris had given herself a score of seven (originally a four). Steris then told Marasi how she felt about Wax.
{{quote|When I'm with him, Marasi, I burn. It's wonderful.|Steris on Wax.}}
Steris at first refused to admit that she loved Wax, then admits that she does love him and thinks it's foolish.{{book ref|mb6|24}}

A little after Suit and some of his minions entered the temple, Steris watched Marasi fly away, using the Bands of Mourning, and found it very unexpected because it hadn't made the list or appendix.{{book ref|mb6|28}} Shortly afterward, Steris goes with [[Allik Neverfar|Allik]] to his old crew, and gives them heat medallions as well as rifles, and they attack Suit's men. The Set was defeated shortly afterward.{{book ref|mb6|29}}

Afterward, Wax and the leader of Alik's crew, [[Jordis]], were arguing about the Bands and what to do with them. Steris convinced Wax and Jordis to compromise and make an alliance. The next morning, Wax thanked Steris for her help.{{book ref|mb6|30}}{{book ref|mb6|31}}

After Wax and Steris got off of the airship, they were greeted by Governor Aradel. Wax then brought Steris in front of a priest, and asked her if she wanted to marry him, and not because of a contract. Steris said that she couldn't remember anything else that hadn't been on her list that was so wonderful. She then agreed.{{book ref|mb6|31}}

==Relationships==
{{image|Wax and Steris by clarinking.jpg|side=right|width=250px|Wax and Steris flying in the mists}}
===Waxillium Ladrian===
{{quote
|8:17. Way into the building blocked by traffic. Lord Waxillium carries us up to the top floor by Allomancy, which is completely inappropriate and at the same time breathtaking.
|Steris' planner{{book ref|mb5|8}}
}}

Steris began her relationship with Wax with a touch of desperation, as her efforts to secure a future for herself and her house had come to a stalemate.{{book ref|mb4|20}} However, after Wax rescues her from her captivity by the Vanishers, she evidences some affection for him.{{book ref|mb4|20}} By the time Wax goes to search for the Bands of Mourning, Steris has fallen deeply in love with him,{{book ref|mb6|24}} even though she regards the emotion as foolish. 

At the beginning of their relationship, Wax regards Steris as an inconvenient necessity, and even enjoys needling her until she loses her temper. As their relationship progresses, however, Wax finds himself becoming protective of Steris’s feelings as well as her person.{{book ref|mb6|12}} Eventually Wax realizes that he not only cares for Steris, but that he loves her. Since their first wedding was ruined by Wayne, Wax surprises Steris with a private wedding after their return from the Seran Mountain Range, delighting her with the one thing she had never expected - a marriage marked more by love than by duty.

=== Children ===
Steris and Wax had two children together, Maxillium and Tindwyl Ladrian. Before the discovery of the Set's plan to destroy Elendel, she and Wax were considering trying for a third child, but Wax had reservations about not wanting the two of them to be "outnumbered".{{expand}}
{{image|Steris and Marasi by Shuravf.jpg|side=left|width=250px|With [[Marasi]]}}

===Jackstom Harms===
Steris has a close, but complicated, relationship with her father. When she was kidnapped by the Vanishers, Lord Harms was devastated,{{book ref|mb4|6}} and offered to bankroll Wax’s efforts to find her.{{book ref|mb4|7}} Lord Harms loves his sole legitimate daughter deeply, and even allows her to bully him into various activities.

===Wayne===
Wayne is the only person to whom Steris does not speak formally, often calling him an idiot. Wayne also does not treat Steris nicely, to the point that Wax asks him to stop. After several years of this banter, Steris and Wayne begin to accept each other, each realizing the talents of the other.{{expand}}{{cite}}

===Marasi Colms===
Marasi is Steris's illegitimate half sister by Lord Harms. They are not particularly close, with Steris not knowing about Marasi at all until she was a teenager. Their relationship is mostly formal, but they still share occasional sincere moments.{{book ref|mb4|9}}{{book ref|mb6|6}}{{book ref|mb6|24}}

== Trivia ==
* Steris was deliberately written as autistic; Brandon felt like he did a poor job representing people on the spectrum with [[Adien]] in ''[[Elantris (book)|Elantris]]'', and so she and [[Renarin]] were written partially in an attempt to correct that.{{wob ref|10591}}
* Steris was based on a friend of Brandon's whom he initially found very abrasive. Part of his intention with her was to create a character whom readers would dislike before learning more about her and falling in love with her.{{wob ref|11122}}
* Steris likes traditional names.{{book ref|mb7|2}}

== Notes ==
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